How I’m Attempting to Make the Mirror My Friend Again
Let’s face it—there’s no relationship more complicated than the one we have with our mirrors. Once upon a time, they reflected back dewy skin, a twinkle in the eye, and cheekbones you could cut glass with. These days? They seem to specialize in unsolicited critiques. Lines that weren’t there yesterday, hair that insists on rebellion, and—wait, is that a wrinkle in my soul?
But here’s the thing: life’s too short to hold a grudge against the reflective glass. So, I’m embarking on a mission: Operation Mirror Friendship. Here’s how I’m doing it.
Step 1: Lower Expectations (and the Lighting)
First things first, I’ve learned the secret to a happy mirror relationship is dim lighting. I’ve swapped out my bathroom bulbs for the kind you’d find in a romantic restaurant. Instant glamour filter. Sure, it makes flossing a little tricky, but who needs clean teeth when you have a softly-lit glow?
Step 2: Positive Affirmations... or Close Enough
Every morning, I stand in front of my mirror and say affirmations. Well, sort of. It’s more like:
“You’re not bad for your age.”
“At least your eyebrows are still around.”
“Could be worse.”
It’s a work in progress, but hey, baby steps.
Step 3: Embrace the Funhouse
Mirrors lie, don’t they? I mean, I feel amazing. Why doesn’t my reflection reflect that? So, I’ve decided to stop taking it so seriously. Every time I catch my reflection, I pull a face, do a little shimmy, or strike a ridiculous pose. It’s a reminder that the mirror might show my age, but it can’t touch my sense of humor.
Step 4: Dress for Mirror Success
There’s a fine line between cozy and “I gave up.” I’ve been living in yoga pants that haven’t seen a yoga mat in years, and the mirror knows it. So, I’ve started dressing up—even if I’m just staying home. Turns out, a cute top and a swipe of lipstick can make your reflection look like you have your life together.
Step 5: A Strategic Mirror Detox
Who says I need to check my reflection everywhere? I’ve banned mirrors from certain places in my home. Full-length mirror in the kitchen? Absolutely not. Hand mirror in my handbag? Goodbye. Car mirrors? Only when reversing, and even then, I squint.
Step 6: Gratitude for the Good Days
Some days, the mirror shows me something I can actually work with—a good hair day, glowing skin after a brisk walk, or an outfit that just hits right. On those days, I high-five my reflection like it’s my BFF. It’s all about celebrating the small wins.
Step 7: Remembering It’s Just Glass
At the end of the day, the mirror is just an object—it doesn’t define me. My personality, my laughter, my quirks—that’s the real me. The mirror might show the lines on my face, but it can’t capture the sparkle in my eye when I hear a good joke or the warmth in my smile when I’m around loved ones.
Final Thoughts: The Truce
My mirror and I may never be besties, but we’re working toward mutual respect. It’s not about liking every reflection—it’s about seeing beyond it. So, here’s to fewer battles and more peace treaties with the glass in our lives.
And if the mirror isn’t on board? Well, there’s always Photoshop and Tik Tok filters!
How do you make peace with your mirror? Share your tips—or your funniest reflection story—in the comments. Let’s laugh our way to self-acceptance!